Cyberspace Heartache

Today's high-tech horrors has brought more harm then good to many people especially to people who can't differentiate between real physical friends and virtual friends. They are blinded by the glazed honeyed words penned down by these computer geeks. They are smart people who knows well the cyber lingo that can unearth personal details from unsuspecting people from the other end of the line. Once they get little info they visualize and make up what that person is like. More often it is falsely presented. Exchanging of emails, chatting can be interesting and fun but it can also create an emotional feelings like in the real world. We are often hypnotized by words that are often written at the spur of the moment and forgotten as soon as they leave the net.

What I like about this unique cyberspace camaraderie is the non presence of "glare and stare" factors. I feel comfortable in confiding to virtual friends. I am barring my soul. Suddenly the chatting stops and the email stops. Why? you realize that you have rubbed on the wrong shoulders, the topics doesn't excite you anymore,something in that person makes you uncomfortable. It just fizzles into the thin air. I have to draw a thick line between reality and virtual friends, at least if being dumped, I'll know where they stay. Through cyberspace one can create closeness and fondness through exchange of words which can actually derail the proper functioning of the brain for a while and jump start the heart to ecstasy like a fairy kind of story.

It is a dangerous game getting involved in cyberchat, we don't know who we are chatting with, so don't believe in words conveyed through the net chat (probably) populated by creepy geeks, deranged looneys and ex-cons. Stay true to your physical friends as they know us better and we are confident they are there when we need them most in times of difficulties. Have you ever found a true virtual friends whom you can chat where you can really put your heart and soul?